It is so easy to be with someone you know so well, that is why it is better to be friends with someone first before he becomes your boyfriend. However, it isn’t so easy to make the transition from friends to actually being more than friends. If you feel that it is the right time to take your relationship into a higher level, here is how you can become more than friends with a guy.
Spend a lot of time with him, with just the two of you
You cannot be more than friends if you always spend time with your other friends. Make sure you have plenty of quality time together, with just the two of you. This will help you get to know how each other better.
Care for him more than your care for a friend
You have to make sure that you give him extra care and attention, not similar to the treatment you give to your other friends. Make sure he feels how much you care, by always asking him how he is and being there whenever he needs someone.
Put him at a special level when compared to your other friends
You have to remember that he is special because he is the guy you absolutely like. Do something for him that would require a little more effort on your part. Make sure you always make him feel happy.
Get to know him more and find common interests
Along with spending plenty of time together it’s important to know him more. This would let you know if you really like him more than a friend or maybe it’s just a small crush you have. You also need to discover the things that you are both interested in, so that you will always have things to discuss about or do together.
Check up on him every day by texting or calling
Another way of showing him that you care is by always checking up on him. Try texting or calling him each time you do not see each other. Ask him how his day was at work and if he needs anything in his next project presentation.
Use flirting signals to let him know that you like him
If he still doesn’t know how you feel, you can start flirting with him. When you flirt with him he’ll definitely know that you want him more than a friend. Friends don’t normally flirt therefore doing this will make it quite obvious to him that you are strongly into him.
Be the best companion for him
More than anything, your guy wants someone who he can have fun with and someone who can help him go through anything. If you can be this person, then it wouldn’t be difficult for him to see you as a potential lover.
